Inevitable, every relationship hits a point where they think they no longer should continue with one another. They start ignoring one another instead of solving out, they often don’t open up with their problems and tend to ignore thinking this would be a lesson to him/her. But this isn’t straight solution. Or sometime you may think you the only one who’s taking efforts to save this relation.
But one thing made clear, we should accept the reality that, a relationship often sounds sweet and simple but we don’t pay attention that they are terribly complicated. A single mistake of someone can ruin some other’s life too.
So before giving up a relationship here are few things you should remember as breaking apart isn’t always a solution.
- THERE MIGHT BE MISUNDERSTANDING?
Sometimes it doesn’t feel like there is a misunderstanding, but this is the truth. You never know you might have misunderstood something or your partner might have. So it’s better to clear small misunderstandings first and then take a final decision.
- YOU MIGHT NEED TO SEE FROM HIS/HER POINT OF VIEW
We often are right in our point of view, and we tend to ignore their part of reality unless we are in that situation. So better to regret later we should once see the problem by their side too and then take a final decision.
- IT MIGHT CHANGE YOUR POINT OF VIEW TOWARDS ALL OTHER GUYS/GIRLS
Just because you don’t have a trust in him, you won’t have trust on someone else too. You might get into a myth that relationships are hoaxes or a waste of time which isn’t true. Thing is you might just stop trusting people even when they are worth.
4. YOU MIGHT END UP BEING LONELY, WHICH ISN’T WORTH.
You might be surrounded by 100’s of people or even your friends, but at the end of the day, you might get a thought of him/her. Even after having so much company, you will land up being a loner and which might take you a long time to recover.
- YOU MIGHT THINK YOU’LL ROAM, YOU’LL ENJOY, YOU’LL BE HAPPY. BUT THINGS WILL BE COMPLETELY UPSIDE DOWN.
You might think that giving up is the final step and you’ll be happy, free after that but this isn’t true. Things will surely go upside down and unplanned. So it’s better to think again and opt for a final decision.
And at the last.
- FORGIVING IS ALSO A SOLUTION.
You both actually deserve to be together. Just by some misunderstanding or a third person, you don’t actually deserve to be separated and most importantly FORGIVING won’t cost you anything but will make you happy.
Even if you think you always the one to forgive, then it’s actually too great. And always remember everyone deserves a second chance. Sometime even you might need a second chance. So always be wise full with your decision.