A relationship and a marriage are not one and the same. You need to be super careful when it comes to choosing a wife with whom you gonna to spend your entire life than a girlfriend with whom you not even sure to spend your entire life with. But even if your girl does some of the below things then it’s not just for her, it would be for you both. So here’s where you can decide if she’s the one who could be your wife or just a girlfriend.
Her unconditional in her love towards me:
She loves me unconditionally. She loves me no matter what. We may have a difference of opinions, I may do things that she may not necessarily agree with, but she’d still love me equally.
Her love is not based on conditions like “he should be rich”, “he should be monogamous”, “he should dress the way I want him to”, “he should not go out with this particular friend”, “he should spend money on dates and lavish gifts for me”, etc.
Her love is pure. Her love is complete. Her love is unconditional. She’s the epitome of love. She loves me for who I am. She accepts me for who I am even if some of the aspects are me aren’t exactly what she wants to see in me.
She’s an open-minded person. She doesn’t think narrowly. She has a broader sense and perspective of her life, relationships and everything around her. She has a third person perspective to all her problems and solves them in a detached manner. If she can’t solve something, she accepts it and stops worrying.
When She Accepts Your Family As Her Family:
When she accepts your family as her family. She never wants to separate you from your parents, instead treats them like her parents and acts as a thread who keeps you and your family together.
Wise with Money & Non-Materialistic:
This is a deal breaker for me. She is intelligent and wiser with money and wealth. She knows that when you’re living as a couple and then as a family, if one person is not wise with money, no matter how much the other earns, it will always keep leaking and put them in difficult financial situations sooner or later. She recognizes that and she works with me in order to save, invest wisely, and then and only then, she SPEND.
Non – Judgmental:
She is non-judgmental. She doesn’t judge me so easily, no matter what. She also puts herself in my shoes and understands me if I do something that she may not like. If she considers it a mistake, she still tries to understand why I did it, from my point of view and tries to see what’s the best way to resolve it.
Doesn’t Compare Me With …
When she doesn’t compare you with other guys out there. She’s the one best for you. After all, every human is different and she knows this thing.
Respects and accepts distance:
She also recognizes the fact that I don’t have to do everything with her as she doesn’t have to do everything with me. She understands that we have to have different interests outside of our life as a couple as much as we have interests together as a couple, to have a wonderful life together. She appreciates that personal space and gives me and herself the freedom to utilize that space and same goes for me too.
When Yesterdays Fights Are Not For Fighting Today:
When yesterday’s fights don’t stop her from talking to you today. She’s the one who’s acting mature in this relation and you should too.
Works out regularly & Eats clean:
This is one of the most important things for a life as a couple. As a guy working out and having a neat diet isn’t a crazy thing but if a woman does these things it’s really great for her guy and for her too.
She is someone that I respect:
This particular thing automatically happens when even some of the above things are fulfilled. When she starts doing these things just for you, she’s the someone who needs your respect on every stage of life, whether it’s a relationship or marriage because at the end it’s you both who going to support each other.